Confidence Tips for Totally Blah Days!

I have had amazing success and devastating loss. I know what they both feel like and for me the balance of feeling good about myself and knowing I belong on this planet and why, has given me the most sincere form of confidence I have ever experienced.

If your wondering how I arrived at this point I would have to say it has been a combination of many different experiences. For me I had to first realize that I had to get to know myself. Find out who Dawn Abraham really is. Find out what I really wanted from life and what life really wanted from me.

Soul Searching

I had to do some soul searching for a lack of a better word. How true that statement is. Because I did find my soul and a whole lot more.

When I set out on this journey I had no idea it would give a complete sense of self. I knew one thing; I didn’t want to feel insecure any more. I didn’t want to feel as if I was always trying to please everyone. I wanted to truly know what it was like to just be, to just be and feel great about that. To know I have a purpose in life And to feel at home here on earth. That is what I was searching for.

Did I find it? Yes! I did find it. Do you know why? Because I really wanted it. More then anything in the world I really wanted to feel at peace with me and with everyone else in the universe. If you want something enough you will get it, that I promise you. Whether you like it or not!

I knew that I was on the right path in searching for that feeling of completeness. The kind that only comes from within. It can not come from another person or things or places. It can not come from enough money or the right house or latest toys.

The Connection

It comes from the connection to all that is. The feeling that I am apart of everything. A feeling so strong I know it from the depths of my being.

It seems to me that everyone is searching for that feeling. In one way or another that is what we all want. In order for me to get to that place spiritually, I had to slow down. I had to slow way down. I had to STOP. I had to get willing to really look at myself and get rid of the things and people and situations that were not moving me forward.

Courage

I had to be willing to let go of anything that was holding me down. I’m letting you know that it wasn’t easy. I was used to all of those people and those things. I used them as crutches without realizing it. Even though I may have put myself in situations or life styles that were uncomfortable at least I knew what to expect. The idea of changing all of that took courage. Finding that courage helped me build confidence. Knowing that I cared enough about myself to make some changes that would be uncomfortable to say the least built up my self esteem and gave me a feeling of empowerment.

Empowerment

Knowing that I have choices felt incredible to me. Realizing that I didn’t have to stay in that suffocating relationship or that over demanding career.

While I’m in those situations it doesn’t occur to me that I have made a choice to stay in that career or relationship. Once I was aware of that I could then make another choice. Different choices, ones that give me power and allow me to create my life not react to it.

That is true empowerment when you realize that you and you alone are responsible for your life. I had to look at my life and say I created this. I don’t like it, now I’m going to create something I do like. I am going to create something I love!

You’re confidence will go up 100 percent if you stop and take a look at what choices you are making today and realize you have the power to make different ones at anytime.

Ask yourself…”why am I stuck?” “What is the pay off for me?” If you’re still in it you’re getting paid off in some way. Allow yourself to see the situation differently. Realize you can take your power back.

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”You are here to enable the divine purpose of the universe to unfold. That is how important you are!”…Eckhart Tolle