Having Trouble Dealing with Change? Not After this Article!

No one really likes dealing with change, especially when the change isn’t your idea.

I would say at one point in my life I was right up there as one of the worst people on the planet when it came to managing change in my life.

That sounds pretty dramatic doesn’t it? Sad but true. I had to turn that around if I was going to have a happy and successful life and I had to do it quick!

What I discovered worked so well I knew I had to let everyone in on it. I made a 180 degree turn on dealing with change and found the solution that has brought me peace of mind. It has been working ever since and that was over twenty years ago.

Imagine your life as an experiment in how to navigate through life happily. That is exactly what will happened once you start to change your perception.

That is one of the keys to dealing with change the ability to look at any situation from a positive perception.

I realized that whatever is coming up in my life is there for a purpose. Instead of feeling resentful because something is changing, I learned to embrace the change. I say learned because it is something I taught myself to do. Once I understood the key it was really very simple.

How do you embrace change? By asking your self what can I learn from this situation? Everything happens for a reason and if you find the reason and the lesson behind it, it takes away the resistance which is the cause of your pain.

We are never in pain because of change, only our resistance to change can cause us pain. Once your stop resisting what happens in your life and accept it the quicker you feel happy again. For me it was one of those amazing “ah ha” moments where you are never the same after that.

I was listening to one of Oprah’s interviews the other day, on her web site under soul series and she was sharing with a guest about a dream she had where the children in her dream were asking her, “What can you teach me?” She said what she learned from that was, to look at every event in her life from that perspective.

I realized as she was sharing, that is exactly what has made the difference in my own life in dealing with change. Now I welcome it knowing it leads to a greater understanding of my purpose on this planet.

Just imagine that if you were told today that your place of employment was going out of business and instead of panicking or getting angry you took the opposite approach of looking at what that situation is trying to teach you. Take it one step further what are the benefits that will come out of this?

You may find, that job was not the best place for you after all. Most likely you were too frightened to leave and now, you don’t have to worry about making that decision the universe did it for you. Isn't that nice? Your life is now open for new possibilities and new dreams to enter. You can do what you want to do instead of what you feel you have to do. Dealing with change now becomes a wonderful opportunity instead of a horrible situation.


I share that example because I had an experience like that many years ago. I remember thinking this is the worst thing that could happen. I don’t have to tell you the end of that story you can probably figure it out. It ended up being the best thing that could have happened. Had I adopted that perspective long ago I could have saved myself four months of regret and misery.

I went on to not only a better paying career but a higher position with a company that gave me the experience and knowledge about running a successful business that I have today. Had I stayed with that other company I would have been miserable and limited; stuck in a dead end position with no future.

Test it and experience what I have experienced every time I take the alternate view of dealing with change, I end up feeling great.

Take this exciting challenge today and see for your self just how powerful that attitude is.

Do you have an experience of how you went about dealing with change? I would love to hear it. This is a great place to share your experience or ask a question about how to deal with change.

I wish for you all the happiness and success the Universe has to offer!

“Deliberate Creation is about deliberately choosing those experiences you make your truths.” Esther Hicks

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