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Written By  Dawn Abraham

The Extraordinary Secret to Dealing with Change...

Dealing with change can be the best thing that ever happened to you if you give it a chance.  The vital word here is allow...remember that word it's going to come up again and you will need to know it. 

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What I discovered worked so well I knew immediately I had to let everyone in on it. I made a 180 degree turn on dealing with change and found the solution that has brought me and countless others I have coached over the years peace of mind. It has been working for me close to 15 years. .

Imagine your life as an experiment in how to navigate through the world happily. That is exactly what will happen once you start to change your perception.

That is one of the keys to dealing with change the ability to look at any situation from a positive or optimistic perception. Dealing with Change How to turn the Situation Around by looking at what is has to teach you.

I realized that whatever is coming up in my life it is there for a purpose. Instead of feeling resentful because something is changing, I learned to embrace the change. Because once I understood the real issue, it was really very simple.

How do you embrace change? By asking what, can I learn from this situation? Everything happens for a reason and if you find the reason and the lesson behind it, it takes away the resistance, which is the actual cause of your pain.

We are NEVER in pain because of change, only our resistance to change can cause us pain. Once you stop resisting what happens in your life and accept it the quicker you will feel happy again. For me back then it was one of those amazing “aha” moments where you are never the same after that.

I was listening to one of Oprah’s interviews the other day, on her web site under soul series and she was sharing with a guest about a dream she had where the children in her dream were asking her, “What can you teach me?” She said what she learned from that was, to look at every event in her life from that perspective.

I realized as she was sharing, that is exactly what has made the difference in my own life in dealing with change. Now I welcome it knowing it leads to a greater understanding of my purpose on this planet.

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I invite you try this new attitude. The next time you find yourself in a situation where something is new or different and you must deal with change, stop, and ask yourself, "What can I learn here?” Those five words guarantee you will be dealing with change from a negative experience to a positive one.

Just imagine if today your place of employment was going out of business and instead of panicking or getting angry, you took the opposite approach of looking at what that situation is trying to teach you. Take it one-step further what are the benefits that will come out of this.

You may find that job was not the best place for you after all. Most likely you were too frightened to leave and now, you don’t have to worry about making that decision the universe did it for you. Isn't that nice? Your life is now open for new possibilities and new dreams to enter. You can do what you want to do instead of what you feel you have to do. Dealing with change now becomes a wonderful opportunity instead of a horrible situation. 

I share that example because I had an experience like that many years ago. I remember thinking this is the worst thing that could happen. I don’t have to tell you the end of that story you can probably figure it out. It ended up being the best thing that could have happened to me. Had I adopted that perspective long ago I could have saved myself four months of regret and misery.

I went on to not only a better paying career but a higher position with a company that gave me the experience and knowledge about running a successful business that I have today. Had I stayed with that other company I would have been miserable, limited, and stuck in a dead end position with no future.

Test it and experience what I have experienced every time I take the alternate view of dealing with change, I end up feeling great.

Take this exciting challenge today and see for yourself just how powerful that attitude is.

Do you have an experience of how you went about dealing with change? 

I would love to hear it. This is a great place to share your experience or ask a question about how to deal with change. The more the merrier. Feel free to leave your website. 

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