Is Your Lack of Verbal Communication Skills Stopping You from Being Happy?

It’s not only knowing how to verbally communicate, it’s about being willing to do that. Most women are much better at this than men. That has a lot to do with the fact that we use both sides of our brains.

Don’t worry if you are lacking in the communication area you’re in luck! In this article I share with you some easy to follow verbal communication skills that will make your life a lot easier while you improve communication. Who doesn’t want that?

Before we start I want you to take a deep breath and get centered with me. Breeeaaathh!!!!!

Always look at the person before you talk. I mean really look at them. Your attention is the greatest gift you can give. If you engage with a person before you open your mouth you will draw them in.

Stop and look them in the eye to get a feel for their energy, then start talking and experience how different the conversation flows.

2. Verbal Communication Skill- Don’t be afraid:

Don’t be afraid to talk about what is bothering you. Even if you feel you aren’t great at expressing your feelings. Start out the conversation by saying that.

Example: “I’m just cutting my chops at communicating right now so please bear with me.” What you’re doing here is setting yourself up for a win- win situation which is exactly what you want in a successful good communication.

You’re letting the other person know to go easy on you. This allows both of you to be more comfortable before you even start out the conversation.

3. Verbal Communication Skill- Pay Attention:

When you’re not talking pay attention to what the other person is saying. Don’t take that time while they are talking to think of what you are going to say.

The greatest communication is listening.

More secrets are revealed by paying attention to the other party than anything you are going to have to say.

4. Verbal Communication Skill- Keep it on a personal level:

When you are talking say I. Take the "you" and "we" out of your vocabulary. You only know how “you” feel. Example: I feel hurt because you forgot it was my birthday and to me that day is a big deal.

What you’re doing here is, owning that statement and not blaming the other person. They may not think birthday‘s are a big deal. You are verbally communicating your feelings without putting the other person on the defense. The minute you put someone on the defensive you are no longer in a win-win situation.

Remember this if nothing else: “If one of you wins you both lose.”

5. Verbal Communication Skill- Be honest:

Tell the truth. You would be amazed at how much easier just telling the truth is. By this I don’t mean to blurt out some hurtful fact about the other person. I listed this tip last because you need to take into account the other four skills first.

Be kind and loving but always tell the truth.I continually find it funny when someone wants to get out of something and says to me what should I say? My response is “Why not tell them the truth?” They always laugh and say hey your right so much easier.

If you follow these simple rules you will start to see a magical difference in the way people respond to you. I would love to hear all about your own verbal communication "Do’s" and "Don’ts". Take a moment to blog your comments here:

I wish for you all the happiness the Universe has to offer!

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