Sanchi, I completely understand your frustration about not being able to use the secret or the law of attraction the way you want to. I want to let you know that you are using it but it is working in the opposite way in which you want.
What you have to know is the law of attraction is not something that only works for some people and not others. It is a universal law that works for everyone.
The problem is by accident you can use it to cause what you don't want instead of what you do want.
Here is the deal: Within 17 seconds of focusing on something a matching vibration becomes activated. Now if you are thinking something you don?t want then that becomes activated and you don?t realize it. You think that it doesn't work, but it has to work. It's a law of the universe.
What you need to do is learn to focus your mind. I wrote an article about making the law of attraction work for you that will help.
You can do it Sanchi I promise. You have to be patient. No one said that it was easy, just that anyone can do it. Practice and in no time you will see you have created all and everything you want and need.
I wish for you all the happiness and success the universe has to offer.