Just enjoy your passion turn it into compassion for u by: charlotte Fuller
Hey so it feels good to be excited about a man again but maybe you dare to flirt with the idea because he's unavailable and so it's safe. There are many people involved, a whole family, I don't see where it's worth dishonesty. Let him leave first like a grown up and then you can meet him there don't you think.
Are you being his mommy to help him exit the marriage? Would you want to continue that role? Are you feeling your first girlish crush after the divorce?
Why not channel that passionate energy toward some deep questions about what your really after here? Compassion with yourself and for what you really need.
And enjoy the fantasy as fantasy as long as it lasts.?
May 30, 2008 Rating
To be or not to be? by: Dawn Abraham
Hi, this is a great question that most people may not ask about before jumping in. Good for you for getting an outside opinion. You may not listen to it but here it is.
One thing I would ask you is have you ever had an affair with a married man? I have, it was many years ago but I have never forgot the lesson I learned. First there is a lot of pain involved, for you and him and maybe even his wife/kids if they find out.
I understand how excited you are. I can feel it in your message. I know how that feels. I also detect a bit of forbidden fruit excitement going on. Here is the valuable lesson I learned and live by to this day. This goes for anything I do in my life, or don't do.
If I can't tell anyone about it then I will not be doing it. If you have to keep this a secret from people and that includes his wife then pass. The pain that comes along with deception is not worth the fleeting moments of excitement. Put yourself in his wife's position how would you feel?
I promise you someone else will come along that will make you feel the same way and he won't be married. Deep down you know this too that is why you asked me.
I wish for you all the love and happiness the Universe has to offer. Love and Light Dawn
