Cosmic Ordering really does work. The situation with you is that another person is involved. That is a bit tricky. Cosmic Ordering isn't like a spell it's a form of the Law of Attraction. It is important to realize that when you put in your order you ask for this "or" something better. Be open for a better way than yours to show up for you in your life.
Believe that the Universe heard your order and is now fining the best way to make it happen. I wrote quite a few articles explaining this concept in detail. My recommendation is to start with What they forgot to tell you about the Law of Attraction. This is will give you a good understanding about how to make things happen in your life.
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I wish for all the happiness and success the universe has to offer.