How Do I Bring love back in to my life? Ask-Dawn-LifeCoachBlog

by Missing my soul mate
(CA)

Hi Dawn,
I want to start by thanking you for creating this website. I discovered it during a very dark time in my life, and will now use the tools and knowledge you have offered, to reconcile and reunite with the love of my life, my former boyfriend.


I have started visualizing a complete day in the life I want for myself, including a wonderful job, beautiful home, and most importantly, him and I being happy, in love, and committed to each other again. It takes me about twenty minutes to visualize the entire day, I have been doing this each night before sleep, and each morning before I get out of bed to start my day.


I was wondering if visualizing all of these things might be too much, should I focus on one aspect, and one simple scenario to make this more effective? Or are all of the details I include only going to help me further?


Also, I find myself often lurking on the webpage belonging to the girl he is currently seeing... is putting this focus on her hindering my effort?


Lastly, is there any other advice you could offer to further help me achieve getting back together with him? I have been in love with him for years. We broke up half a year ago, and ever since, I have been in a very deep depression. We live a few hours away from each other, he rarely seems to want to talk to me now, and I miss him so much. I get so depressed I end up behaving in ways that are so unlike me.


What I truly want more than anything else in my life right now, is to be in a loving, happy, and committed relationship with him again, and to hopefully move in together following that.


Thank you so much for the time you take to read this and respond, I truly appreciate it. Have a wonderful and positive day.