how do I take back my life?

by kim
(maryland)

Hi dawn i wish you all the best in your radio show ... i need help & i have no one to talk with who can advice me & lead me what to do
i don't know why i feel i need your help & i trust you my secret my life ruined completely, my man which he's all my life left me for no reasons,no alarm. just all of the sudden after 2 years of happiness , love, work, success,fun also hard times we faced together.

he's not from my country .. so last time he went back to his country he sent me an email that he has someone else!!! but he still cares , longing to me , thinks of me in his special time .. you know what i mean, then he came back to my country he has hard time around me & me too he's so attracted & i feel him... he said it clear that he holds all the memories & he wants me but he can't he even avoid looking at me or touching me & not face to face but just through sms he tells me he has someone else.

i can't believe it coz he seem so unhappy & his spirit down, changed & i feel him confused & afraid to get close to me like a kid while he's 5o years old.

i never saw him like that ...yet he wants to spend time with me & talks to me, goes out to eat together..

I can't live without him & i'm ready to give up anything just have him back.

I think he choosed her coz she's from his country & its hard for him to commit to me coz we're from different culture & religion but i told him many times before i don't care.

though we have no problems,we are best friends, compatible, understand ,respect, enjoy each other & he told me i'm the most one who understands him ... i feel i'm still in his heart though he denies that but his actions show me i'm right .. can you advice me what to do ..& if he really loves me????

i want him back & i feel the other woman doesn't make him happy though he said he's happy in his new life & she's not enough that he said i'm better & he think of me even when he was with her!!!!

dawn please help me please tell me how to turn my life back i'm not like any other woman i won't move on my life is him .. my love to him has no way back

sorry if i bothered you & thank you so much for reading this