i think this is everyone's life, and telling any person in that circumstance to just "think" positive is like going into your local mental insitutiton, calling everyone to attention, and yelling, "ok you people - straigthen up!"
the only way to feel change is to be change. How?
1.get around people who have the change you want - any 12 step program helps that.
2.get around people who need more than you - volunteer at any soup kitchen or old age home for that.
3.keep the foucs on yourself - can't change anyone but you - and doing that is a full time job.
4.rely on a greater widsom than yourself - god - through prayer. must pray and connect to hear anything - especially peace.
5.and definiely getting a good mentor, therapist or coach helps one stop wasting time reinventing the wheel.
"this too shall pass"
blessings, deb
author of the new book- The Sky is Green and The Grass is Blue- turning your upside down world right side up!
