1- Don't talk about your future only as you've planned for, but always with saying by god's want 2- Do not be confident that you never make mistakes and that your vision of life is the only correct one...because its human nature to make mistakes and no body is perfect. 3- Try to keep away of troubles 4- Never make a thing you can't talk about. 3-learn from others mistakes 4- learn from your own mistakes not to fall in it again, as prophet Mohamad said (meaning):"Faithful person does not fall in the same trouble twice". 5- Don't share serious issues with all people you know. 6- When all ways to solve a certain problem are exhausted your end... do not just panic and surrender look for help with your parents or in specialty places 7- Trust me no body loves you and wants to protect you and forgive you more than your parents 8-Stick to religion...God knows what is best for us more than we do . Human mind is limited but God's knowlege of what he created is not...have faith in God and trust of his law. 9- Don't wait long to solve any problem the more time the problem lives it will expand more and be more complicated thus takes more time to be cured. 10- Be patient because even after solving a problem or disaster or whatever it needs time to recap your self and find your path again... You will be a fragile person in the first period...careful and consult before taking serious decisions. 11- Thank God for what ever happened bad or good because nothing happens but for your sake even if you didn't know that. * After all because of this bad experience the girl became closer to god and parents and its good that maybe i will be praised from god because maybe somebody may learn from it.
12- Cover your mistakes prophet mohamed told us to cover others mistakes * its not a shame to cover our mistakes since we have the will to change. 13- The best of mistakers are repentants 14- After thanking god, thank people around you who heplped you solve the problem and get back your life (Family, friends, ...etc) in acts towards your self and others and decisions you make to keep your self happy and people around you happy for you too :) 15- Consult your God before anyact refering to his book/s and by praying.
*** before problem got solved was in Mekka when made consulting prayer to god regarding this case and at that time every thing went in a way... mother asked about the problem expecting the answer and his acts were unacceptable at all making this girl explode like asking for sex by phone when this girl comes back from Mekka otherwise will make something bad to her and her family when she is back too. all were signs i believe in this prayer and signs.
- Regarding call Oprah!... Thank you for your suggestion, but since the problem is solved without being published i'll try to let others benefit from this experience without having the personal fame of the issue. :)
Oct 28, 2009 Rating
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apologies for my english and typing mistakes while writing this story as was v. nervous when i decided to write it on the web. Please note i have no will to depress anybody when reading my story but want you to keep hope active inside you. every problem have a solution but some times it needs a little courage. In my story the matter was not only a matter of courage to solve the problem, because the risk to take was not only on the girl it was also on her family and in my opinion i don't have the right to take risks on behalf of others.
Parents told daughter she has done a v.big mistake since she was not able to correct the situation by yherself she had to tell them since they are responsible of protecting her no matter the situation is.
