Interesting. I am not sure that if you feel you already have the answer or know the outcome what is missing for you?
You’re at a point where you need to talk to someone. Not a physic but someone who will get the answers out of you. A physic tells you what they pick up… they may be right they may be wrong but they do all the work you need to go to a deeper level.
It’s difficult to do that in this fashion because it’s really about asking you questions that get to the heart of the matter.
My overall feeling that there is someone else out there that will appreciate you more has not changed. The fact that for whatever reason she is isn’t committing to you isn’t a good sign.
When it comes down to it Pete, what do you want? Not what does she want. What do you want?
Dawn
Nov 26, 2009 Rating
thanks dawn by: pete
hi dawn and thanks for the reply, i haven't quite got what i was trying to say accross sorry,
i know exactly what your saying but, i failed to say that she doesnt actually like the other bloke let alone love him, she is there or was there (as they've split up AGAIN) purelry because she'd been told that she should for the babies sake, but my view is that if she's not happy then neither will baby, anyway, everytime something happens its me she turns to, if i make friends with other girls she asks questions, i talk to her far more than anyone else including him!! she is however a very proud person that is stubborn in admitting her feeli9ngs, i did move on after 4 painful months of not having her around, but out of the blue she got in youch again and we have spoken all day everyday since three months now in total and we are getting closer and closer by the day , and most night just talk on the phone for hours really talking about nothing inparticular just laughing and enjoying eachother.
it is my honest opinion that she does want to be with me because all the signs are there, but i also feel that she cant handle the pressure and abuse that he'd give her yet again if she did, plusas i said she would find it hard admitting her feelings being so stubborn with herself,
i have infact seen 3 different psychics who are all highly reputable and won national awards, just general readings but all 3 have picked her up and pour strong bond, also they all say in almmost the same words they see us as true lovers although they also say that to get together properly will be a bumpy road and that we both will be glad in the end as it will make us stronger,
i hope now that you can make a bit more sense of the situation and se now if the advice is the same..
love pete
Nov 26, 2009 Rating
Lessons to be learned by: Dawn Abraham
Pete,
I have to say you seem like a wonderful person who also deserves a wonderful woman who is available.
The way it seems to me she isn't available to you. I am not saying she doesn't love or care about you but she is not ready or open to completely be without this other man and she may never be.
What I have learned in my many years on this planet is every person that comes into our life no matter how attracted to them we are does not mean we are supposed to spend the rest of our lives with them.
There are lessons we learn from every relationship and reasons certain people are in our lives. If this woman is supposed to be in your life forever she will be and it won't be so hard. When something is meant to be it flows. The doors open and lights get brighter so you know you're walking down the right path, not the other way around.
When the doors close and light dims, it means time to move on as painful as that can be. I know Pete I have been there too many times.
The best help I can give you is the gift of self realization. Meaning once you realize just how much you have to offer and how special you are, you will no longer be attracted to someone who can not commit to you.
If she could she would have by now. I wrote an article about dealing with change. I go into detail about acceptance of what is and how to move on from that. That is what I see here you are stuck in a situation where you are hoping that by you changing she will come back. Also surrender believe it or not is a place of power. It?s where you let go and make choices based on what is best for you. I suggest you read my surrender article as well.
Change for yourself Pete and if she does come back than that is extra and not the goal. I promise you, you will find another woman who not only appreciates you but doesn't feel so attached to another man.
When and if you do change you won?t feel the need to have someone in your life that is not really 100% into you. Not because you aren't wonderful but because she is attached to that other man for reasons that have nothing to do with you.
I wish for you all the love and happiness the universe has to offer!
