my ex girlfriend and I keep being drawn back together

by pete
(wales)

hi

me and my ex girlfriend broke up a few monthes ago when her ex and father of her child returned after running away when she was pregnant, they split up again 4 times since and eve when theyre together she and i cant help but be in contact, i still love her and desire to be with her but she just wont take that step back to me and its really hurting me,
we bring the absolute best out in each other and we get on 100 times better than she ever does or ever did with him and she tells me that, she finds me more attractive, we have more in common, she has fun with me, we had a great sex life, she told me she was so lucky to have me,
i know that these feelings wont have gone from her heart but i sense that she is struggling to hear her heart over his manipulation expecially with a child involved, however i was more of a daddy to the child than he'll ever be, although i was a little insecure and possesive near the end of our relationship, due to fear of losing her, i have since realised this and need to release this from my life so that hopefully through the universe she will realise that i have changed and that is just the last push she needs to be sure we will work forever, which i know we will, we talk for hour everyday and when i ask the universe for signs i get them immediately,
how do i go about resolving this situation and getting her back for good??

many thanks for listening
Peter James