If you believe in yourself,things will work out.Dont give up hope,if your parents dont understand you visuialize that they do .VISUIALIZE WHAT YOU WANT OUT OF LIFE make it happen believe and the universe will guide you in a positive direction.
Jan 18, 2009 Rating
It will get better I promise! by: Dawn Abraham
I'm glad you took the time to write to me about what is going on with you. It's good to get your feelings out and when we put them on paper it allows us to see they really aren't as bad as we think.
The purpose of life is to grow and learn. You are having growing pains which is natural. It's okay to have problems that is part of life, everyone has them. It's how we handle the problems that makes the difference.
If your parents don't understand you, running away won't make it better only worse. And of course as much as ending it seems like an option it isn't. You will simply have to come back and face the same problem again until you walk through it.
If you want your parents or any person for that matter to treat you differently you have to first treat them differently.
For instance if you want your parents to trust you then you have act trust worthy first. Do things that show them that you can be trusted and that you are mature.
The other thing that I hate to say but is true, your parents maybe right about what is good for you. I know you don't want to hear that but I found that out for myself the hard way.
When I grew up I realized that my parents although weren't always right they always had my best interests at heart. I realized that they are people too who are only doing the best they can with the level of awareness they are at. Give them a break and put yourself in their situation and you may see that it isn't easy being a parent.
Your part is to be the best daughter you can be and don't worry about their part you don't have any control over them. But you do have control over you.
You're at the beginning of your life try to enjoy it more and realize that some day you will look back on this and realize it's no big deal it's all apart of growing up. I wrote an article that may help you to turn around the way you deal with things.
