Why is the Self Image I have about myself Negative if I am Beautiful? LifeCoachBlog-Question

why is the image you have about yourself the way it is?

if you try to think about that you will find out that ego only can try to explain itself on a basis of what you already have, but will never find an external reason to be just the way it is.

for example:
you think "i'm fat" so you become desperate and unhappy and miserable and what not, and you go day by day being unhappy and miserable and what not..

but at the same time you might have...lets say "beautiful face"... but you do not go day by day thinking "how beautiful i am"..

you rather think bad :D despite all the posiblities of being happy.. i mean, you have the reason for it.

so i conlude:
EGO THINKS - if something is good now --> ok, let it be that way :)

BUT, if there is anything BAD, i can't be happy now, it needs to be CORRECTED! :D

so there are plenty of reasons to be happy (it may be infinitely many reasons) but AS LONG AS THERE IS ANYTHING BAD --> I NEED TO BE MISERABLE !! :D