thanks dawn, I've figured that out. I asked you on an email but I just want to make sure you see it, Could you please delete all the cosmic orders and questions i have on this site Please? I have a privacy problem and I really don't want anyone to see it, not my family, friends, or ex, actually we're getting back together. Things are working out but I don't want them to see it. So please take them all down. Thankyou for helping me.
Love,
Shaneeka Johnson
Nov 02, 2009 Rating
It's not always worth it. by: Dawn Abraham
I have a theory Shaneeka, if you have to try too hard at something you?re forcing it. When a situation or relationship is meant to be it will have its normal up?s and downs but it?s not supposed to be this painful.
Real love does not feel like a burden. The question here is not whether you will get your cosmic order it?s more like why would you want it?
Take a look at why you?re in this relationship to begin with. Make a list of positives and negatives and see which one out ways the other. You may find out that when you have a more mature strong relationship you won?t feel so desperate.
I suggest you read my article on how to deal with change. What I see here is a woman who is afraid to let go but really needs to for her own good. I completely understand how scary it is to move on from someone or something you think you need, but I promise you Shaneeka the only thing you need is the love of self and a belief in a higher power.
I wish for you all the happiness and love the universe has to offer!